Re:No sex Shanna: or maybe a shopping spree is in order.....to the local XXX store for sex....then get some close gal pals and a dog to cover the need for affection
Re:No sex sourpuss: sex toys, some gals & a dog?
i think i saw that on the internet once... :o :o :o
Re:No sex Samarra: You've just described my marriage in a nutshell.
I was married for 12 years...the last 3 were sexless. I did the same things you did...cry, scream...even threaten (which by the way makes it worse) Yup...I threatened to cheat if he didn't at least explain to me what was going on. I was sure he wasn't stepping out...he was always home.
But as you know being there physically doesn't amount to a damn thing if your emotional needs aren't met as well.
The worst thing about it was we didn't hate one another...we got along good...I couldn't figure it out.
I still have no answers. Unfortunately my answer was divorce. Nothing was forthcoming as he was the sort of man who couldn't or wouldn't talk about things.
That was the solution for me...only you know what feels best to you but it sounds exactly like my situation. I did not want to live the rest of my life without any kind of sexual fulfilment. And toys alone won't cut it. Think about what's best for you...You've tried all you can. If you have to walk away...better knowing you gave it your best shot.
Re:No sex ukchap:
Sorry to be so blunt ..
Your marriage is dead and you need to move on before
it destroys you !
I lived in a similar situation for 5 years it is heartbreaking ....
You deserve better ...
UK Chap
Re:No sex jillieb44: Similar situation here as well, and we're divorcing. It takes 2 to make a marriage work, and if your husband thinks things are cool the way they are and won't listen to your feelings and needs, then the writing is on the wall.
You need to decide what's best for YOU. And if you need more than fighting and being ignored (who wouldn't?) then you need to do something about it. If he won't leave (mine wouldn't) then you should (I did, hard with 2 kids and pets, but I did).
Jillie
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