Re:"Welcome to the World of the Emotionally Unavailable" PiscesGoddess: Spec-
I agree with BBHF..you DO deserve someone that wants you back..You are an intelligent beautiful confident woman..it's his loss not yours sweetie. And with your ex it wasnt just his cheating ..if I remember correctly he beat the tar out of you right? If you can make it out of that you can make it out of anything..you know that! Honey Im sure your not only hurt beyond he!! but you have got to have a whole lot of anger going on because you picked up your whole dang life under the pretenses that he was going to build a future with you and then BOOM your left in the dust.. ::) He doesnt deserve you to want him anymore..get back on that horse SISTER..There is someone better out there for you..but maybe right now that person can only be you..know what I mean?? PM me is you want to talk .. Im thinkin bout ya..
BIG A$$ HUGS
Pisces
Re:"Welcome to the World of the Emotionally Unavailable" Spectrum: Jillie- Technically I broke up with my bf, but it wasn't because I didn't want to be with him. It was because it was totally obvious he no longer wanted to be with me. And he hasn't done anything to disabuse me of that notion (and I've given him several openings) so there you have it.
PG- The deal with my ex-h was not so much physical abuse as emotional. He had a real inferiority complex that he enjoyed working through by verbally harrassing me for hours at a time until I was either a sobbing mass of jello or a raving lunatic. The physical abuse thing was nipped in the bud rather promptly; the one time he hit me hard enough to leave a big bruise I made it very clear that there would be serious legal and emotional consequences if it ever happened again. After that he just stuck to the emotional abuse. In any case, our relationship was problematic enough that when I discovered he cheated it was the straw that broke the camel's back.
Spectrum.
Re:"Welcome to the World of the Emotionally Unavailable" jason_stl: Spec,
I am sorry this happened to you.
[quote"> I guess I'll just take my gilded invitation and join the ranks of the emotionally unavailable.[/quote">
I can't speak for all of us, but welcome back ... well that and your dues are owed by the 1st of every month.
(that was suppose to be my one attempt at humor)
Peace out.
-J
Re:"Welcome to the World of the Emotionally Unavailable" jason: Faeces occurs, Enron happened, and the dot com bust sucks rocks. ;D
So does your TX situation.
However, I have no doubt that you will bounce back from this stronger than ever. I know what your dreams are, and I am sure you'll attain them in due time.
You are in TX for a reason, but I don't think you've found it yet. Now dammit :) Get busy looking for it, and I am sure you will find it !
Your friends stuck in the great white north !
J and M
Re:"Welcome to the World of the Emotionally Unavailable" JimB: [quote author=Spectrum link=board=6;threadid=13079;start=0#msg108105 date=1118630055">
Then I can pretend to be carefree and enjoy myself, even if that is far from the case.
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Fake it to make it! It really works. Pretend to be carefree long enough, and before you know it you actually ARE carefree.
Hmmm. As the founding member of STEU (Society for the Terminally Emotionally Unavailable), I should have given consideration to the idea of dues long ago. I'd be a rich man by now....
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