The audacity of some... lghawaiian: For those who don't know me or haven't read my posts (there are sooo many of you), I will sum up. My wife cheated on me and is now living with the other man.
Now, tonight, I found them in the apartment we shared taking MY things. The level of my self control amazed me, thanks partly because I was at my neighbors playing cards with friends. As I was walking to my apt, I spotted them through the window. I did not immediatley barge in and destroy anyone or anything. I walked back to my neighbors and one of my friends went in my place and asked them to ceace and desist. They did not, and left with some of my things, and some of my neighbors things that were in my apartment. A friend of mine was here who lives near them, he returned with my instructions to return my neighbors belongings tonight, and the rest of my things tomorrow. She called me and tried to talk me down, to make me bow to her convenience. I refused, obviously. She agreed to return the things she took that we did not discuss she would take. If she does not then this situation will go from being a civil agreement to a legal mess. Not what I want at all, I just want to start my own freaking life without her, I need to move on. I'm ready to. But I will not be trifled with.
I never imagined that someone would be so disrespectful, especially to someone like me who was a great husband, a best friend, a lover, someone who regularly volunteers in the community (etc, etc, more self validation).
When will this end?!?!
Re:The audacity of some... mydarkdreams: Ugh that is awful! I am so sorry! Change your locks *NOW*
Re:The audacity of some... Runehawk: Extraordinarily good summary, that first paragraph.
Extraordinarily good man, being that patient. -r
