uggh so frustrated! EssieDotCom: Oh i'm so frustrated with happy people! i know that sounds horrible but i'm so tired of hearing from other women how great thier husbands are when my life and the marriage i once thought would last until I died, is nearly over!
okay i think i'm done now
Re:uggh so frustrated! sourpuss: it's cold comfort, but one day you'll be patting their hands across the table over tea saying "there, there" and telling them their stbx is a jerk....
Re:uggh so frustrated! penguinMAMA: I felt that way after my first divorce. I was miserable when everyone else wasn't and felt a bit like an outsider. My Granny(bless her heart) came up to me and told me as long as I was miserable, he(my first ex) won and I had given up.
That made me angrier and I jumped right back into dating to "get even". Eventually the ouch faded some and I didn't need to keep ripping a band-aid off to try and see if he was coming back, or if he was sorry. I was just trying to manage me and the kids the best I could and surrounded myself with happy people to just be normal.
Re:uggh so frustrated! EssieDotCom: right now i just need to get away from this man. he'll be back from his trip tomorrow, oh this should be fun, which means i'm gona pump out what hours i have left at work for my intership and get up on out of here!
Re:uggh so frustrated! penguin: I understand completely. I have been on Ojar for a while now, and I got to know a certain couple and I love the relationship that they have. It have me hope and inspired me. Then I broke up with my b/f, and suddenly, (I know this is horrible) but I hated them that day. I felt that they had something I would never have and I longed for. Their relationship is so awesome that it depressed me. But then I began to think more about it. I'm sure they have their problems and I'm sure they thought the same thing I did at one point. But they got over it and moved on. I think that's what I have to do. Move on. I can't keep thinking that I'll never find the ONE for me. I know eventually I will. And even if I don't, OH WELL! I have my daughter and that's the most important thing in my life. Period. I don't need a relationship to be happy. I can be just as happy as the couple, without being with someone. At least, those are my thoughts for now. I'm sure at some point in the future, I'll be miserable and hate all cute couples again. But again, I'm sure I'll move on from there too.
I hope that made some sence. I tend to ramble and not make sence. Sorry.
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