Growing up? fiz: This email is all about you.
Now while I do not completely understand our situation I do know things I see. US breaking up was supposed to be a growing up experience and a chance to make ourselves happy and do things right for Alex. Now I've made a pros and cons list of how I see what you have done so far and what its accomplished
Pros:
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[*"> You got a new fresh piece of ass to play with and you don’t have to deal with him everyday.
[*"> You kept the benefits of me being your boyfriend like paying the bills but you don’t have to deal with me everyday either.
[*"> You made yourself seemingly happy.
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Cons:
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[*"> You effected Alex’s life in a bad way
[*"> You effected your parent's life in a bad way
[*"> Again I mention the effect it has on Alex
[*"> You Screwed me up in the head and made me feel like a thrown out used piece of trash.
[*"> You put yourself in a situation you can’t control and made things tons hard on yourself.
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Now this is a harsh list but it’s a true list. Even after all the sh*t you put me through I still tried to sugar coat everything for you. I attempted to help you with bills and make you happy regardless of the things you did. What should I do from now on? I was once told if you chop a dog’s tail off piece by piece slowly it will die but if you chop it all off at one time it will live. What does that mean to you? What SHOULD it mean to me? How should I have reacted after you went and started dating and SCREWING some other guy not even 2 weeks after we broke up? That’s more like a revenge act then a growing up act. I know this email is going to make you mad and honestly I don’t care anymore. I'm tired of trying to make you happy about all this even though I'm the one getting sh*t on all the time. You really need to think about the past 3 months and what has happened. Who has done what and who hasn’t?
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Should this letter be sent or not?
Re:Growing up? Lumpy: Dear Fiz,
If your asking me personally I wouldn't send it. It's just going to make her more defensive. At this stage of the game it's extremely doubtful that she's going to admit that she's making a mistake. Even if she did you are the last person she's gonna admit that to. Honestly I think it just makes you more vulnerable. I think it might go over a little better without the biterness. Express your concerns regarding your son but take yourself out of it...
