I've come this far BlackRaptor79: Hey guys, it's me RisingPhoenix79, just had to register again...
I'm almost done, already signed the final decree and waiting for things to finish up. They still want their ring back after all this is done, wow... even though it's community property, I rather not keep this cursed thing. It would seem bad luck if I did keep it, ya know....
I found that even if I'm to be single, I am happier now because I'm not dragging a deadweight, narcissistic albatross anymore. I have freedom now to go for a degree in early childhood education. I've seen the ray of hope after this big storm and am rejoicing.
BlackRaptor79
Re:I've come this far acidflask: Congratulations!
You sound in high spirits and ready for this to be over.
Good luck with school. An educated mind is a beautiful thing.
Re:I've come this far twobeautifulkids: You sound good. I'm glad that you are moving forward and see the positives. Good luck on the degree...that's what I'm trying to go for as well!
Re:I've come this far riversandlakes:
BlackRaptor79, does 79 mean being born in 1979? Me too!
I'm slowly but surely coming to a conclusion; it is right to be afraid of commitment. Not because men have anything to lose (women do?), but because it is always possible the other doesn't commit as one does :-\
I'm considering joining the club of "fearing commitment"...