Re:Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scare of screwing it laurie007: i think actually you'd be fine waiting till wednesday to call and talk to her and skip the text...you only have to wait till tomorrow if it were more than one day away i'd say text but call her tomorrow-i'm sure she'll answer or if she's busy she'll call you back as soon as possible.
Re:Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scare of screwing it hollygolightly: Hey mophead. I think I'm in the exact same situation. I just started my first post-divorce relationship and all my insecurities stemming from the divorce are sabatoging what could have been a something great.
My advice - take it slow and don't jump into the "seeing each other everyday thing." You saw her Friday and again on Sunday. Can you send a text saying you had a really great time on your dates and you will call her Wednesday to setup something for the weekend?
Good luck,
holly
Re:Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scare of screwing it Lome: Am I getting this right? " You made out " as in the prelude to sex and now you are afraid to email or phone....
Dude...cart before the horse. Time to slow this down.
Well, I am very old fashioned in this regard....it seems.
So here is my old fashioned response.
There is nothing wrong with a friendly email. I have a few that I email daily....
But set limits....You know...I reallly enjoyed seeing you last time, thank you for the show. I will be busy the next few days ( sitting around bored or clipping your toe nails count) but, I will get back to you on Thursday around 7.
Don't play mind games. Set up dates where you can develop some sort of friendship....activities or events that allow for discussion afterwards....
She is young and you are just recently coming out of your shell....have some fun....just don't start thinking too far ahead.
Good Luck....
Why not text her saying you would love to discus plans for the weekend....Friday may be too short of notice...
She may have plans on Thursday (gym, groceries, hanging out) and may not be available for the call.
Re:Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scared of screwing i mophead123: I just called her, but I got no answer. (It's evening here by the way). I didn't leave a message cause the machine is 10 seconds. Anyway, I hope she isn't overcompensating to show that she isn't too overinterested. She has a day off today. Anyway, I wanted to ask, should I NOW text her and tell her I had a good time and ask her what she is up to the weekend and that I want to go out with her or just wait for a call back? I still haven't made contact simce Sunday. I am stressing too much huh? I hope I didn't wait too long. Thanks for putting up with all this.
Re:Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scared of screwing i laurie007: hmmm...i would wait to see if she calls you back and if you haven't heard from her within say 12 hrs text her...i don't think she'd just not call to compensate i do think she may want you to sweat like you did her. heard anything yet?
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