Re:Question? How long for no contact? myowncanoe: indenial: I would ask myself what things was I stopping from going forward in my life by keeping a place for H in your heart. Are they important things to you right now? Your H doesn't seem to be giving you any indications that he wants to forge a communicative path to a relationship with you, but he has told you he needs the divorce process. Maybe you could start that ball rolling now - 6 months of NC is long enough imho.
[quote"> How long should you wait hoping the other person will come back to you? How long should you wait in limbo?
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Fiz, don't be in limbo. Love your ex as best you can, let them love you as best they can and live your life to the fullest. It sounds hard but really it is just an internal perspective shift.
