Re:Ex sex. dreamerpoet: Yeah and I have to remind myself that, unfortunately I didn't find out about the five women until after I had taken him back the last time. >:( I will resist but why is there still a weak part of me that would even have to think about it????
Re:Ex sex. in_search_of: Its usual, and comfortable, and easy to fall back into. That does not make it good but reality none the less. I had a bad situation where I fell back into it. My ex moved out on April 1 (a couple of years ago) and came back to see my little sister graduate from HS, and the weekend that he stayed with me, we had fun, we hung out, and eventually we hooked up...basically, that is exactly what happened, we hooked up. I ended up in tears during the first attempt, and later we did do it, it was a good bye thing, or something, but still not a good idea at the time. Put a lot of doubts into my mind...
Re:Ex sex. dreamerpoet: I think that is my huge weak point right now. All of my family is in CT and he and his family have been all I had for the past 6 years. Long time to break a habit.
Re:Ex sex. Suddenly Single: Yeah that is a long time. Hang in there. Just keep thinking about the lying and cheating - the ultimate deception. How awf ul to have found out when you did! I'm sorry!
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Re:Ex sex. in_search_of: That is the hardest part, it is a hard habit to break, and especially hard when your family is far away, either emotionally or physically. You will be okay! I promise, and you will get past this. Just slam the door in his face when he wants to knock boots. Or hand him a pair of your c0ckroach killers to bang together!
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