Re:Need guys opinion - sorry so long jillieb44: And it's really hard not to go after what you want. I'm a go-getter. I see something, I go after it. That's just me. But now, in my recently separated state, even though the ex is history and I'm emotionally over him (had years to get here despite the recent separation), I do NOT want to come off as overly aggressive or needy. I'm trying to make sure I've made my interest known, then the ball is in their court. The waiting totally sucks though.
Here it is, a full 48 hours since contact with this new guy (I sent a short e-mail as followup to our phone call) but no response. My brain is screaming to e-mail him, but my gut says no. I've made my interest clear, but I'm not desperate. I know who he is now and where he lives; if my recent separation is an issue I'll know where to find him later, LOL.
Waiting is so hard. I'm not the patient type. I want plans for the weekend or else I have to help my brother move, which is NOT how I want to spend my first (and last) free weekend before the new job. Oh, well.
Jillie the impatient...
Re:Need guys opinion - sorry so long ti-poux: Jillie,
How about having more than one "on the go"
I don't mean being intimate but having like a spare tire or somthing like that...LMAO...now I crack myself up...spare tire ;D ;D ;D.....sorry again guys...I don't know what's gotten into me....
Anyways Jillie, that way you are constantly busy and a busy woman sends vibes to men and they react to that...
Chantal
Re:Need guys opinion - sorry so long jillieb44: Chantal, you don't want to know how many men I winked today on the dating site, and how many I already have e-mailed that never responded after the second one....
If I end up dateless this weekend maybe I'll just go to the amusement park by myself and ride all the cool coasters since I won't have my shorty kids with me. :D
Or disappear to the beach with a trashy novel...
Jillie
Re:Need guys opinion - sorry so long Pumpkin: Well, I guess I will not do anything. I may not even go to church this Sun. I don't want these guys to think I am desperate or anything, and usually I play a good game, but I usually get a call or something more at this point. Anyway, I suppose maybe I am destined to be alone. I know that I am acting dramatic, but I have not been single in 11 1/2 years, so this is really depressing to me, especially since I was so positive in the beginning of all of this. I am 28, good looking, smart, friendly, etc, but maybe my stbx was right when he said no one would want me because I have a baby. :( I didn't think this would be so hard.
Re:Need guys opinion - sorry so long jimloveless: i'd date ya, pumpkin. kids don't scare me. unless their heads spin around and stuff.
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