Now this is what I call a vent! WhiskeyGirl: <NAME>,
I dont know what you hope to accomplish by hanging up on me all the time,its fucking childish! We need to be able to dicuss things for the kids sake apparently you are still unable to do that. Now I will have my say....I cant even believe you can say that I keep streching it out and streching it out, thats ridiculas! Let me remind you of the original conversation we had,when you first told me you would now only be seeing the kids every second weekend What you said was that you could only get up every second weekend BUT you would pick them up on your way by and drop them off LATE afternoon on your way by. Those were your words exactly, <name>, think back. Now what I get is a fight to even get to pick them up before 10 on Saturday and drop them off at noon on sunday??? What the fuck is that? I'll tell you what it is, its One Fucking day every 2 weeks that you can spare for 3 girls who miss you terribly. I know your thinking "dont pull this guilt trip stuff on me" but
too fucking bad. Its the god damn truth especially for <name> who starts asking when she can see you 2 days after you drop her off. I know you have things to do <name>, I have tried to be flexible, not that you EVER see that. But I think you could spare a few extra hours and mabey lose a few hours sleep (big deal) once every 2 weeks. And no, this isnt about me... although it would be nice to have a plan and STICK to it for once so that I can make plans and not have them fucked up every time but, whatever....whether you want to believe it or not the reason I get so pissed off is because I am the one who sees how badly these kids need you and miss you, I am the one who watches <name> hug and kiss your goddamn picture every fucking night before she goes to bed because you arent here to do it!!! So ya, you goddamn fucking right I am pissed right the fuck off about it when suddenly you cant even manage to keep the original agreement which as far as Im concerned wasnt enough to begin with. Ya, I am sorry if this comes across bitchy but I am feeling pretty fucking bitchy right now, what you cant see is the tears running down my face because I feel like my kids are getting screwed out of a dad. I cant make you see how much the kids miss you, I cant make you care but I sure as hell dont have to like it. So fuck you, I'll fucking be here at 1:00 on Sunday so you can get your precious lab done in plenty of>time to
get a full nights rest because god knows we wouldnt ever want YOU to ever have to sacrifice anything now would we???????? Yes I do realize this is out of line, and Im sure I will be sorry for writing it and putting us right back to where we were....at each others throats, but I just cant fucking help myself!! My kids get hurt and look the fuck out, Ive told you that
Re:Now this is what I call a vent! WhiskeyGirl: This isnt about you, <name>, its not about me, either....its about 3 little girls who are now paying for our fuck up. If I wasnt so pissed off right now I would actually be begging you to try, please try to spend just a little more time with them, I dont think you have any idea how much it would mean to them. But whatever.....things are what they are. I could quote things that <name> has said that would bring you to your knees but even I am not that cruel, its hard enough for me to hear them. I wish we could actually talk like friends about stuff like this then mabey you would listen, mabey you would care. But its just not going to be that way is it, no matter how hard I try, all you ever see is a power struggle between you and I....and that is saddest fucking thing of all. I had hoped we could be good friends, we would both have the kids best interest at heart, and that we would work together. I try to do that
but it gets me nowhere with you.....You know you come in, wake me up at 6 in the morning to tell me <name> needs new clothes, so you know what I do, I go out and spend over 200 of money I cannot afford to get her new clothes, jammiesthe works. Because I figured mabey you were seeing something I wasnt and since I figured we were on the same team, Id listen to you. Now I see if it were me saying it to you....you'd just tell me to go fuck myself and hang up
on me! I am so fucking tired of this! Thats all I have to say. You say I am being unflexible??! what a crock of shit! I am the one picking up the slack here buddy, so that YOU can go to school. You dont think Id like to go to school full time and be able to rely on YOU to take care of EVERY fucking thing so that I can do it???? Fucking rights I would!! But I wouldnt even have the balls to ask you, never mind bitch and complain that you were being UNFLEXABLE! Give me a fucking break! Try, for once, to put yourself in my shoes....mabey you might UNDERSTAND things a bit better. Look at the facts. .apparently you cant even handle the kids one night every second
weekend WITH your moms help since she has now asked MY MOM to help YOU GUYS out!!!!! Come on, <name>, think about it!! I have bit my tongue and kissed your ass till Im blue in th face FOR WHAT????? You dont fucking appreciate any of this! thats blatently obvious now. I'll have the kids ready at 6 on friday.
Good fucking day to you:
<Name>
Re:Now this is what I call a vent! WhiskeyGirl: AAAAHHHHHHHHHH.......I feel so much better now ;D Tell me......do you think I over used the F word a tad??? LMAO
Re:Now this is what I call a vent! buyrbware: Allow me to enlighten you, my ex sees her kids about 2 hours every 4 to 5 months, The wonderful world of the parent with no responsiabilities!
Re:Now this is what I call a vent! WhiskeyGirl: Hey! come on now......here I am venting away, feeling sorry for myself and you come along and totally took the wind out of my sails!!!! :P LOL
But yes, yours definately wins the dead beat parent award....thats awful!! If mine was that bad there would have been twice as many F-words in there >:(
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