Re:Getting this vibe from my wife down2basics: Good Luck Thinkin! I'll be Thinkin' 'bout ya! Hope your holiday is a good one!
d2b ;D
Re:Getting this vibe from my wife NoEscape: "I’d like to work it out, but that trust and willingness that I would not have to hear from her, but feel and see from her."
So true man. Its all about the feeling---
I wish you the best on this one man. As you can read its a difficult road although one that can be very pleasant if you let it. Or you can be a jackA** like me and ruin it every few weeks because you cant get past your jealousy....LOL.
Seriously though I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that your wife "doesnt have the same ability to cause you pain" as she did before. Its like if I know someone is going to punch me in the gut I will at least tighten my abs so it wont be nearly as devastating. Give it a shot....date, have fun, see if you feel it. I know what you mean about the sex thing too.....even if I ws really really pissed at my wife I found it very hard to turn down when it presented itself....
Oddly or maybe not so oddly it was really really fun. Maybe because I wasnt sure if it was going to be the last time ever with her. LOL.
Good luck.
Re:Getting this vibe from my wife Thinkin: Thanks, you all are great.
NE, LOL if you’re a jackass then I'm not only in the same boat but also riding b!tch on your jackass. Were two of the same in so many ways, it's funny we don't know each other in real life cause were so the same. I have faith in you buddy, just control your trust issues and keep your radar up and I swear I'll try and do the same. ;)
Poetry: you’re so kind, a little too kind I've always said, but I thank you all the same. What you say makes all the sense in the world to me, but I'll keep my guard up so that I don't get hit in the face the way I did the first time. I don't think I focus too much thinkin about that vibe, but I feel it coming and like NoEscape said, I'm tightening up my abs getting ready for the punch and won't let her sneak it in on me. But I'm willing to try a little; at least enough to see if I feel and see it from her rather then just say it. Thanks again, your the best, and cheer up from that bad day your having, it won't last and you know it ;)
My Buddy down2basics: You’re a rock; I know you'll be there for me like I will you. Thanks for just letting me know you’ll be thinking of me in all this. Still gonna make it to the lake for the forth?
And now I'm just hangin out watching some TV and knowing that she will call when she gets home it’s sitting in the back of my mind. I'm not over thinkin or anything but I just have the feeling a storm is coming if you know what I mean. I don't think it's bad but I just have the feeling something is going to happen from the way she was talking lately. So I will of course update you later, but if you have any last words or advice before I tackle this call that's sure to come, feel free.
Late,
Thinkin
Re:Getting this vibe from my wife Chey: Hi buddy,
Sorry I came in late, and I really don't want to add more than has already been put up...just wanted to say I hope things are ok, that your head space is clear, and that you know we're all here anytime you want to talk ok.
Big hug
Chey
Re:Getting this vibe from my wife jen: Thinkin...
Your gut (or vibe) knows what is going on - you have too much history with your wife to not get on a gut level what she may be about right now. But, what is your gut telling you about what you want and need deep down?
As with so many things, it comes down to where you draw the boundaries for yourself this time in terms of what you want and what you will accept from her. I think that it is good to have a rough idea of that going into the conversation, but I agree with Poetry that you may not know how you really feel until the conversation starts.
But, no matter what, trust that you will do the best thing for yourself when the time comes.
Good luck tonight!
hugs,
mtmo
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