Re:No dating during separation buyrbware: To hell with it all........ Just get a motorcycle and Live!
Re:No dating during separation Cowboy12: HH.
A little bit of me, thinks you are at the bargaining stage of your loss, this is usually after the initial shock, asking for space" etc. ... You try to rationalise whats going on, and bargain with life to make it go away....Asking someone not to date while seperated is admirable, on your behalf, but it will drive you crazy for a while.
I hope you and your wife can get back together, as ending it all, is tough ....the same as if you find her cheating. Hang in there, you have a child together, I know I have 4, and they are the most important thing in all of this.
Re: No dating during separation Ilosther: I agree, I am in somewhat of a bargaining stage, trying to hit this at any angle that will make it hurt less. Bottom line, she's moving out and breaking up the family. But no matter what I say or do, I can be yelling at her, I can be crying to her, she just doesn't have any emotions left for me. Deep down, maybe it will resurface, but it may not, who knows.
I say I deserve better, and she says that should make her feel bad, but she says it doesn't. She doesnt get hurt by anything now, but she is still scared about this ending.
It's just so confusing. I don't deserve this person, I do deserve my old wife back.
Once she moves out, and I get over the initial shock of it, most likely I'll get my own apartment (I'll hate my wife for that since my son will lose the luxuries of a house, backyard, our dogs, etc), I'll get back to the gym, and yes, the motorcycle will definitely occupy my time.
I wont do things just to make her jealous, since I really feel she wont care. And that will hurt for me. So, I'll just get used to being single, never really was, but I know I can do it.
thanks people
Re: No dating during separation insomnia: i agree no dating during seperation- until the final papers are signed then it is a done deal. all it does is add more problems to the ones you already have. plus if if you there is a chance to get back together and save the marriage this definately will not help. take care of one thing at a time.
Re: No dating during separation sigkapgirl: Hmmm... the way I figure it, my stbxh started dating before we were even separated, so whenever I'm ready for a relationship I'll go for it...
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