Why does it hurt?Re:Argh! Your dating already? chantel: Almost in response to the Argh! Your dating already?topic, I am almost in the same boat. I hate my X really, everything about him makes me wanna puke, the way he treated me, trust me he deserves no respect.
But when I hear from a mutual friend thats hes out partying and hanging with friends, while I sit here endlessly fearing being alone for the rest of my life, HES OUT THERE HAVING FUN? And then I lose it I cry for days and hours and I dont get it. Why if I can so confidently say I hate him (and I do) does it hurt so freakin bad when I hear this news. I just dont get it? I feel crazy. I ended it because I wanted him out of my life, but when I hear what he is up now it hurts and ruins my days I try hard not to let it but it eats at me.
Please noone think I still may have feelings, Ive already thought of that, and I know I dont want him back I cant even stand him for the moments he picks up the kids. Thats what puzzles me, I know I dont like him, So why do I get so upset that he has moved on with life?
Re:Why does it hurt?Re:Argh! Your dating already? freovir: you want validation..... we all do, but if your ex is anything like mine the only person he is capable of caring about is himself. My advice is to pull a Pontius Pilot and wash your hands of him.
--freovir
Re:Why does it hurt?Re:Argh! Your dating already? mydarkdreams: I am very much in the same boat as you. Don't want him back yet don't want him to already be dating.. I fear that I'll be alone forever.
Re:Why does it hurt?Re:Argh! Your dating already? wowee: Me too... I cannot put into words the intensity of how much I know I would never take him back ( or want him back ) But yet I cannot stand the idea of him with anyone else. I see on the cell phone bill just how many people he is calling & who he is calling regularly. I see the times he is calling so late at night & even that makes me cry. I wish I had a way to stop crying about it. I wish I could understand why it hurts so much. If I come across any answers I will be sure to let you know & please, if you figure it out first let me know!!!
