Re: CONFUSED!!!!!!!!! jimloveless: lol!
pretty obvious here how guys and girls think differently.
if my pal dumped a girl and she all of the sudden wanted me, i'd laugh and tell him it was his loss. if i didn't take that oportunity, that friend would probably slap me upside the head. i'd expect him to.
Re: CONFUSED!!!!!!!!! Samarra: Gotta love the differences!!
But really...womens' relationships with each other form a closer bond...but putting all the macho stuff aside...is it really true that if your buddy took your girl...you'ld feel no jealousy...c'mon now fess up.
Re: CONFUSED!!!!!!!!! jimloveless: if i dumped her? why should i care? i'm a selfish ass.
Re: CONFUSED!!!!!!!!! lghawaiian: There's a 3 month rule that I have in my book. Three months after a friend breaks up with a girl she becomes dateable. And for me, that's with the friends blessing. I can't stress this enough, mostly because it was a friend who took my wife from me and turned her against me. But I digress...
Blue, sounds fantastic, I too had a nice experience at the fireworks, but it was short lived and without future, just a little cuddles with a friend. I wish you the best!!
Re: CONFUSED!!!!!!!!! Blueyes424: Well, I have been thinking and thinking, and in all honesty, I still don't know what I am going to do. I am still just as confused as I was Monday, when J asked me out initially.
He called me last night, when I was at Bubba's (no not the Bubba from here either!!) watchin a movie, and asked if I had thought about things. I told him that I still wasn't sure, and that I'd let him know, but no matter what I decide I want us to be friends. He told me that no matter what, he wanted me as a part of his life, even if it was only friends. Of course, Bubba was outside with me while we were smoking and I was talking to J on the phone, so he heard my end of the conversation. He asked who it was, and so I gave him the condensed version of the story.
Of course I added at the end, that part of the reason I wasn't sure about J was because I liked someone else (him) and he said, Yeah, I know. I didn't recall having told him that I liked him, but apparently I did, or he overheard me and Penguin (Bubba is her brother) talking about him, and I didn't know he was listening. He said that I told him, but I think he's full of it.
I wanted to ask if the liking was mutual, but I chickened out and didn't. So now I am more confused, because Bubba seemed to have an interest in me that I haven't really seen much of since we started talking and hanging out. I like him A LOT, and I know he isn't ready for a relationship, so...............I am just not sure what to do now at all.
AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just wanna pull my hair out. Now my dilema extends into do I wait for Bubba to be ready for a relationship? I know we will always be friends, no matter what, but I would like more than that at some point. Do I ask him if he sees things going that way ever, or just leave it the way it is for now?
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