snivelling sourpuss: i was having not too bad a day today, at least it wasn't any worse than all the other days this week, and then i opened the mail...
i got the annual statement from my union's health & welfare plan to confirm my life insurance benficiary. my beneficiary is, of course, the stbx.
i thought, hmmmm, i should change that, why should he and his stank@ss slag benefit if i die tomorrow? so i got my pen out...
now i'm sitting here crying because i have no idea who to replace him with.
i have no children, my parents are dead, i have no siblings and my godchildren are the kids of the ow.
i am so utterly alone. where the he!! did my life go? how is any of this fair? what did i do?
Re: snivelling dreamerpoet: (((((HUGS)))))))) I am sorry you are so down.
as for the beneficiary deal....do you have any other family, aunts uncles etc?
Re: snivelling WhiskeyGirl: You know.....I really dont know what to say here :-\ I just had to respond and say something though! I am so sorry your feeling down, sometimes all it takes is something like that and our perfect world seems to come crashing down. You are not alone! we all feel that way sometimes....sending hugs your way :)
Re: snivelling BabygirlM: i am so sorry. its hard i know. :(
Re: snivelling amola: {{{HUGS}}}
i'm so sorry.....
i haven't changed my life insurance beneficiary yet, only because i'm too lazy to do it. i already talked to my sister, and she's going to be the lucky one because i trust her with the money more than i trust my ex. she knows that she is to handle the money for the kids....i trust her judgment on that one.
i don't know what to suggest to you in the way of a beneficiary....it's tough when you don't really have anyone. turn it into a scholarship or give it to a charity or something? i dunno........
hang in there.....it'll get better......
{{{HUGS}}}
amola (who was snivelling earlier today)
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