Re: Book Idea. Need some advice.
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Re: Book Idea. Need some advice. Kat0628: Thats what I meant lemondrop...thanks for clarifying

I'd like to know the what went wrong... honestly which I may get my head bitten off for saying this…but I don’t really think you can always place the blame on one person…not even the one who did the cheating…

Theres 2 sides to everything…even though you may not understand or accept the other persons side of the story it’s still there…

Re: Book Idea. Need some advice. MaraJade: [quote author=Kat28 link=topic=14541.msg121646#msg121646 date=1120747910">

Theres 2 sides to everything…even though you may not understand or accept the other persons side of the story it’s still there…

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That's what I've always felt.  :)


Re: Book Idea. Need some advice. microtech1: I would be interested in reading it because I would like to get some insight into what made you do what you did? I think you are right that by writing it down you can gain insight for yourself that maybe you can't get anywhere else.

I agree with you Kat there are two sides to every story and each and every one of us has some part in what has happened to us. We may not see it at first but when the dust settles there are things on both sides that contribute to the demise of a relationship. It's the hard truth but you have to face your own accountability before real learning can take place.

Mara thanks for offer to share your story. I have been thinking about writing down my own story for some time, Maybe your example will inspire me to take the step and just do it.
Re: Book Idea. Need some advice. lemondrop: [quote author=Kat28 link=topic=14541.msg121646#msg121646 date=1120747910">

Theres 2 sides to everything…even though you may not understand or accept the other persons side of the story it’s still there…

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I agree with you on this... except to add that someone once told me that there's 3 sides to every story... there's your side, my side and then there's the truth...

It'd be cool if I could sort it all out one of these days...   :-\
Re: Book Idea. Need some advice. Kat0628: yeah but the thing about the 3rd side...is its different for every persons point of view...

They know the truth about themselves...so I guess in a way...

when it comes to a relationship between 2 people ...

theres 4 sides?!?

youre side ...their side...and the truth behind both

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