Re: Need advice, please! irishman33: i asked her that evening and she sounded like she was interested. this is the first time she has answered this question in 5 months......i figured that this was progress. i have been going by myself off and on for the last 4 months.
there really shouldn't be any issue of money....i help her out every two weeks, plus she makes good money working from her home. i thought that the jealousy issue was a little strange because she had gone out early on in our separation and was meeting people at bars and what have you. i brought that up and she said that it was only a couple of times......and that i was out more than her. i asked her how she knew that and she told me that she would drive by my place. did not know that!!!
i understand the difference between the emotional and physical....i almost believe that we caused a ton of emotional abuse between us. i just hope that we can sit down soon and attempt to talk this out. i would imagine that i should give her some time before i ask her to do anything. waiting is so hard though.........what else can i do?
Re: Need advice, please! insomnia: it took me a lot longer than 5 months to finally come to my senses. and believe me i am still trying. i dont know your wifes intentions, but i can tell you mine. i truly do love the man. it is not for financial reasons, jealousy, etc... i have always wanted to go back even though it appeared to him that i had moved on (did not) and was out having fun with my friends and never giving him a sec thought. truth of the matter i was really drowning my sorrows the best way that i knew how. i knew he was dating someone because i would get the info, plus, i would drive by and see him not there plus i cked the cell phone bill and saw all the calls so i was hesistant- plus add a little foolish pride to the mix and there you have it. it took me a long time to build up myself to go to him (knowing that so much time about a year had passed) and that i may be rejected and submit my self to more pain but i did- and was rejected and it hurts so much.
my love towards him is most definately genuine i can tell you, esp after what he has put me through lately and all that he is doing- i can tell you that i love him still and there is nothing that i wont do for him.
