what's your problem? genesplicer: Ok, just need to vent a little bit tonight.
Just got a call from the stbxh that he was in a car accident tonight. Needless to say I was (still am I guess) pretty upset, but he insisted that he was fine and hadn't been hurt. He also said that the driver of the other car had been taken to the hospital as a precaution but he didn't think there was any real injury.
The part that really pisses me off is that it felt like the only reason he even called to tell me is that we're still on the same insurance policy so he wanted to make sure he covered his a$$ and let me know what happened. Didn't even tell me what happened to cause the accident (though from his recent driving habits I've got a feeling he was the one at fault), didn't seem to care at all that this might upset/affect me (and as bad as this sounds, pretty upset that he messed up the new car...)
Figuring I'd be nice, I texted him and offered him a ride home, or to whereever. He sent a message back saying that his boys were covering him. WTF? Since when does he have his own crew?
Well, I digress. I just don't understand how such a great guy could turn into such an a$$hat! Guess I'm just feeling a little selfish tonight, trying not to be too bitter.
Thanks for listening. [/rant">
Re: what's your problem? Lumpy: Dear Genesplicer,
A$$hat!! I love it! I'll have to use that one to describe my ex at my next possible conveinance.
Re: what's your problem? genesplicer: Thanks Lumpy, that's my new favorite word. :)
Well, looks like I was right. Stbx ran a red light and hit someone turning through the intersection (so I've heard from a friend, he won't talk to me about it). Sounds like there is a bunch of damage, maybe just short of getting totalled.
It's just soooo frustrating to really see again and again that he doesn't care about me anymore and doesn't want me anywhere near his life.
It's also frustrating that he couldn't wait a little longer to act so irresponsibly when it really doesn't / can't affect me anymore.
Re: what's your problem? jimloveless: keep dreaming, gene.
he doesn't care about anyone but himself right now. he is incapable of putting anything else first. if you look for it to happen or expect it, you're only going to set yourself up for more pain.
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wow... i didn't mean for that to sound so harsh. sorry about that. i do feel for you and what i say comes from experience. that's probably where the hint of bitterness comes from.
Re: what's your problem? rhondam71: It is very important that you not stay "tied" to him regardless of your marital status. Cancel your insurance and get a new policy.
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