Re: separated and talking? EfemII: Anger.... that's all I get from reading your post.
Rage..... cause he's pulling your strings.
You need to learn some things about his actions now that he's playing this game of indecision with you. Remember that you don't have to play along with him. Set your own agenda... have him play by your rules... and most importantly make sure that you act when it's in your own best interest.
The whole goal of marraige is to be able to work through the hard times. If he's really worth all the effort, then you'll need to think of your feelings first. Right now anything goes, cause all the cards on out on the table. You've got to really think of yourself first and not him. Be selfish about your wants and needs, and let him know that this $hit is for real.
My separation was hellish for about 1 1/2 months, because I didn't know what she was doing or what she wanted. Well, once I figured out that I needed think of myself first then the rest of my decsions came pretty easily from then on.
I wish the best for you right now.
Efem
Re: separated and talking? achingallover: I'm with Efem - go with what you want. Take your power back, girlie!
hugs-steph
Re: separated and talking? down2basics: Amen Steph! You are right on!!! Hang in there girl! You're going to be fine - you'll see!!!
hugs!
d2b
