Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? ColoHill: I think you are just going to have to spill it now...LOL You are running up a list of people that want to know who you are talking about.
Could I maybe suggest PMing the person(s) you are peeved at to let them know that you are a tad bit offended by the nature of their posts?
I don't think any of us need to go looking for new "hook ups" at the state we are in. We all still carry with us some baggage and with that vulnarability. Plus, some people are still in relationships (happily or not).
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? Yeehaw: Actually I gave up my KSA (Knight in Shining Armor) license April 7th of this year... right after my stbx told me about her affair... all the drama I need right now, thank you.
::)
Dennis
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? Blueyes424: I tend to agree as well....OJar isn't a dating site, HOWEVER, if I were to happen to meet someone on here and through posting and talking and dealing with the bad stuff in our lives something more were to develop from it, I don't know that I would shy away from it.
We've all been hurt on a similar level, and who's to say that being with someone who has been in a similar situation may not be beneficial? I mean seriously, someone who has had some of the same experiences as you may be able to treat you better than someone who hasn't. Why would they or you for that matter want to inflect the same pain that they or you have been through?
I am not saying that I am here looking for someone, cuz that isn't the case at all. I'm just saying, if it happens, so be it. I won't shy away from it because of coming in contact with them here.
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? Shanna: I met my SO here on Ojar, but it wasn't intentionally. I dont' think you can have this many men and women in one place and not see hook-ups.
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? Smiley17: I'm speaking for myself here when I say that I'm only looking out for the vulnerable. Just raising a red flag, that's all.
Again - There's nothing wrong with meeting someone here!! I met someone from here and we're good friends. It's the ones intentionally looking for something from someone's who is vulnerable.
Ok? ;) Ok!
-KB
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