Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? Smiley17: No, I don't have a problem with someone meeting on this site, just with those purposely looking for someone... or better yet... hounding someone.
I don't think it's right to use someone in that manner. That's what I'm seeing.
Don't get me wrong, I think it's great if you meet someone, but it's using this site and the vulnerability that gets me bugged.
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? jillieb44: I must be dense (or overtired) or both.
I've missed this.
Who's trolling for dates?? :o PM me if you don't want to spill it publicly.
Jillie
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? ColoHill: I think we all have to remember that some people try and exude a bit of sarcasim. But with this only being typed text, the words are left open to interpritation by each person who reads them. I know I have been involved with a couple "conversations" that have had things said in them but I wouldn't say that they were anything past joking around about things that had been said in earlier posts. I would have to assume that with other lots of other posts I have read as well. We have to remember that just becuse we are reading the words, doesn't mean we automatically know what each person ment when they typed because typed words lack things like tone and inflection.
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? getting_rough: In my opinion we are all hurting in some way or another. and it is probly not a good idea to be looking to "hook up" right now. the relationship would not be healthy.
Although I do agree with:
MARA JADE
"I mean, if that’s where you find the love of your life or something what’s the big deal?"
yeah let me know too so I can watch out. LOL
Re: Ojar = Dating site??? WTF? penguin: I agree. I am on this site looking for love. But not from someone on the site. From myself. I need to love myself and learn to trust others so that I can eventuall love someone else and be loved the way I want to be loved. I think it's just wrong for people on here to try to "help" someone only to get their number and attempt to "hook-up". That's just messed up. My thoughts are..... If I was ready to date again... I wouldn't be on OJAR.
IMHO
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