Re: Can't Take Much More WhiskeyGirl: ummmm :-[ yeah I didnt realize we had his sister on the board here. Hmmmmm I cant help but feel the way I feel about what he's doing to her but, Justme....Im sorry for what I just said about your brother..........
Re: Can't Take Much More justmenow: No apologies necessary. He deserves everything that is being said about him out here. I completely agree with you all because my XH cheated on me too. There is no valid excuse for it - EVER, even if it is my brother. He doesn't deserve this sweet woman and I keep telling her to kick him to the curb.
[quote"> Pack up his crap and leave it on the front lawn preferrably with a big sign attached to it saying "FOR PICK UP BY CHEATING HUSBAND!" [/quote">
I love that!! Do it!! :D
Re: Can't Take Much More DarrenB: I cant believe the audacity. This is totally pathetic VM. Do whatever you have to to get him out [size=8pt"> (cough...cough...restraining order..cough, cough....,) [/size"> or get out of the situation yourself. Noone deserves to be treated like this. Why don't you try getting your in-laws involved? Have they heard about all of this from you or do they only hear your husband's version of the story?
He is walking all over you because he knows that he can, and he is taking advantage of you and your situation. He thinks that because you have a 6 month old you are stuck there to put up with his crapola. Forget it. You are worth much more than this as is your son, and do whatever you can to bail on this loser.
Re: Can't Take Much More penguin: One night while he's asleep, take the house keys off his key ring. (until you can get the locks changed) Then after he leaves, dump all his stuff on the lawn and when he shows up, if he makes any sort of scene, call the cops! Problem solved!
Re: Can't Take Much More vonmon69: Thanks everyone. Even reading my first post on this thread makes me sick. It's been about 1 1/2 months since I found out, and he's teeter-tottered several times about trying with me or not. He's recently said he's sure he wants a divorce, when last week he told me he didn't want to spend his life w/anyone but me and he wanted our dreams to be with me not someone else.
The reason he can't go live with her is because she won't let him because she has a five-year old son and "it wouldn't be fair to him". She sure doesn't seem to mind what her nasty-a$$ is doing to my son!! If she let him though, he'd move in with her in a heartbeat. Skank.
Anyways, I'm going to a lawyer soon, and I'm going to do what I should have done a month ago - file. It breaks my heart . . .
As far as kicking him out, I only work part time, and I rely on his income right now. I need to keep a roof over my son's head, and I'm afraid of what he'll do if I kick him out . . .
Life sux.
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