Re: Can't Take Much More vonmon69: We don't even have a date set for when he's moving out because he spent all of our "savings" during one of the times he had "decided to stay". So it's just open-ended right now as to when he's leaving.
:'( :'( Eveythings just so hard right now . . . :'( :'(
Re: Can't Take Much More dj: VM,
I am SO sorry for what you are having to go through. Knowing your stbx is cheating is ONE thing, but for him to do this right in front of you...OMFG...that is just too much.
As someone who was cheated on as well, I totally get where you are coming from. I wanted nothing more than my (now) ex to come home and "wake the hell up"...but she couldn't and I don't think most cheaters CAN wake up. To do so, would mean that they would have to face themselves in the mirror and after doing what they did, they just can't.
Know that you are not alone in this feeling and that in TIME (again people, the dreaded "T" word) you WILL start to heal. It is a bit&h VM...it really is. It is one of the absolute hardest things I've ever had to do in my life...but in the end, you WILL heal.
How long has it been since you found out again?
Re: Can't Take Much More justmenow: Oh Von, sweetie, I'm so sorry you're going through this, truly I am. I cannot believe he is being so disrespectful to you. Even I do not recognize him anymore and he's my own brother. I would do anything to spare you this pain. My nephew is lucky to have such a good Mommy. Please don't let his bad behavior reflect on your self-worth, because you are a sweet and caring person who is worthy of better treatment than this. His actions are simply unacceptable. If living with you is so bad and he can't stay away from her, then why doesn't he just leave and move in with her?
Hm, if she was his full-time responsibility do you think it would last? I'm thinkin' not...
Hang in there and let me know if there's anything at all that I can do.
VC
Re: Can't Take Much More WhiskeyGirl: I cannot believe what Im reading here!!! So he cant move out because he has no savings ??? WTF? Thats really too bad for him isnt it? I say kick his sorry ass out! I would feel differently if he showed any kind of respect or concern for your feelings but that sure doesnt sound like the case at all!! What a jerk! Pack up his crap and leave it on the front lawn preferrably with a big sign attached to it saying "FOR PICK UP BY CHEATING HUSBAND!" I am so sorry for what you are going through, I cant believe people can be so heartless....hang in there girl and get him out of there as fast as you can, he doesnt deserve your concern over what he can and cannot afford. Cant he move in with the homewrecker he's with now?
It will get better, take care of yourself!
Re: Can't Take Much More jillieb44: Change the locks and throw his crap onto the lawn. You don't need this sh*t. I can't believe the nerve of him. Take him to the cleaners. ;D
Jillie
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