Re: This is a first for me, and it's really cool. hudson: i'd like to add, one of the things she said to me in our convo was that she could really use a good friend in her life right now. And you know what? I'm a damned good friend to have. Just ask anybody who knows me.
Re: This is a first for me, and it's really cool. WhiskeyGirl: [quote author=blazin'heart link=topic=15031.msg126119#msg126119 date=1121305220">
no, we don't make out anymore holmes. we're just friends, that's what's so cool. We have re-defined our relationship.
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Give it time, Blazin' give it time........LOL, I hate to be the only one saying this but once you go there.....you cant go back. I had a good friend too, we ended up going a little far a few times....then we "redefined" our relationship too. Everybody told me it couldnt be done but I thought it was great....for about a week :-\ then we opps! ended up right where we were. Its just too easy to slip back into that once you've been there, especially when we are still hurting. I am not saying dont be friends with her, I dont think theres anything wrong with it at all, I dont think theres anything wrong with "making out" with her either....she knows where you stand now on the whole "relationship" thing so go for it. Keep us posted, kay? I wanna be able to say I told ya so like everyone did to me! LMAO :P I dont think theres anything wrong with "friends with benefits" if you both know where you stand......
Re: This is a first for me, and it's really cool. hudson: whiskeygirl, don't you have any faith in me at all? I know we can do this. I don't want to get any more serious with this girl romantically. I want to be friends. It's that simple. I'm am not, I repeat, am not looking for a friends with benefits situation. If I was, I would've posted "hey everybody, I've got a new friend with benifits". But we're just friends, and that's the way it's gonna be. You just watch whiskeygirl, you naysayer, I'll be back here in a few weeks telling you how super my new friend is, and where will you be, not naysaying, i guarantee you that. ;D
Thanks for the input girl.
Re: This is a first for me, and it's really cool. WhiskeyGirl: LOL....I'm sorry, you sound exactly like me trying to convince everyone it would be different for me too ;D....We shall see ::) anyway I wasnt saying you were "looking" for friends with benefits....simply pointing out that theres nothing wrong with that. .......you'll appreciate that later :P LMAO
I'm just teasing you...hey if you can do it and its what you want , great! I'm pullin' for ya....I was just pointing out my experience because I felt exactly same as you do now. Mabey Im just cynical because it didnt work out for me :-[ I still think I'm right though ;D
Re: This is a first for me, and it's really cool. hudson: Something that Smiley reminded me of, and that I happen to agree with is, women get emotionally attached once they start having sex with a man. I don't want that to happen, cause I know 2nd base leads to 3rd and then Home Run! tee hee. I don't want this girl getting attached to me romantically as I am not in a place to reciprocate right now. Keeping her from getting hurt is my first priority in this whole thing. That's why I'm not sure I agree with you that friends with benefits is really all that "ok".
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