You Know what?... SrABlue: I think that a lot of my own (probally others I assume) feelings about staying with the "leaving" other is the fear or disconfort of being alone. You know not so much the person but having somebodys company. After finally going out after a few months of dealing with all this seperation drama, I met some girls , talked etc. And during that time I felt a whole lot better like "yeah I dont need her" in my mind...Thats probally while its so easy for the cheating scoundrals because they have there plan B...But it certainly feels better dealing with intrest from people rather than rejection (from your partner). :-\
Re: You Know what?... ChiefWiggum: It is truly amazing how much better we feel when we just go meet some new people.
For those of you truly depressed (I know, I was one of them) GO MEET SOMEBODY! It worked wonders for me, but then again I happened to meet great people.
CW
Re: You Know what?... Samarra: Yup...the ole back-up plan!
The leaver usually knows weeks before the actual break-up they are leaving and have already formulated a plan in their little minds...and that plan sometimes comes with someone new.
Sex on the side...they can jump from yor bed into theirs...never missing a beat...so no pain..no heartache...and another warm body to take your place.
I'm happy for you...enjoy the attention!
Re: You Know what?... riversandlakes:
i wish that was true for me. i went on a dating spree for two months, seeking to ease this pain. doesn't work. i don't want to be with anyone else.
no one's presence is the same. even now it's still the same, but now i realize i'm too good for her, and i shall do well on my own until the right one comes along with the right values. i have certain red flags to look for now, and i shall ensure those red flags do not exist with the right one (else she won't be the right one?).
if push comes to shove, two can play the waiting game, but only i shall win it >:(
Re: You Know what?... mophead123: Have to agree with big R&L on this one. It's not just about meeting anyone. I have been trying to get "out there" and have actually met quite a few who were interested in me. I guess it just wasn't right. She was longest relationship clearly I was ever in and to be honest I spent 5 yrs. technically single before that. This wasn't because I couldn't find a relationship but rather that I guess I am very picky or choosy when it comes to a partner. Now that pickiness is through the roof. To say the least, any warm body won't do for me...
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