It was an eventful evening Thinkin: This is a follow up to my wife wanting me to move back to the house so she can move out. That way I could take care of the dog but her parents own the house. So it leaves the door open to feel she can come and go as she pleases, least that’s how I see it.
It was an eventful evening; I saw my wife cause she kept asking to talk. She asked me about if I thought about moving in while she moves out. I told her I couldn't do that, and I pretty much told her I didn't see us being able to be friends. I asked her what she thought about it but she just said I don't know. That's seems to be her answer to everything these days. She looked down so I explained I wasn't doing it to be a d!ck but I wouldn't see that as healthy. I told her I care about her and love her still but I just can't move on and be in the house. So I feel good about it, I don't think I said anything I didn't want to, and I felt the need for it to be said to move on. But I feel good about it so I guess it all gets better with time, I would have found it hard to say I didn’t want to be with her or even be friends but it came out so damn easy this time. So here I sit, thinkin.
Re: It was an eventful evening riversandlakes:
You thought it out right there, Thinkin. Her parents house, so logically and behaviourally (such a word?), she can come and go whenever she wants. she gets to remind you of her existence constantly and Plan B is always in effect.
They don't know about many things, until they make a move. But one thing they do know is to blow things up sky-high and don't know to all the rest.
My ex knew she wanted "space and time" to checkout the OM (subconsciously, i think), but she doesn't know anything else. How about us and betrayal and my feelings? Yet friendship was still begged for. I am still very much disgusted.
Anything that makes you feel good at this juncture, buddy. For she is doing what makes her feel good.
Re: It was an eventful evening Thinkin: Thanks for the reply Rivers, even today I still feel good about what I chose to do.
Re: It was an eventful evening jimloveless: I'm glad for you, Thinkin. When something rings true in your heart, it makes you feel good. so long as it's doing that, you know it's right for you, at least. you're being true to yourself... and sometimes that all they leave us with, so why not?
Re: It was an eventful evening Blueyes424: Thinkin~
I'm glad that you still stand firm in your decision honey! And I think you are right, it would be difficult to live in her parents house. I wish you all the best, and you know where to find me if you need me!!
Love ya!!!
~blue
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