Feeling really down cherryice: Two years ago my partner at the time and I dicided to move to wales together.
The mortgage is in his name only as are all the bills.
We have two lovely little boys and I have two from a previouse marriage but they live with their dad in leicester so I don't see them very much :(
Now I have a huge problem
the man im with has decided he doesnt want to be together anymore and wants me to leave the family home.
What do i do my name isnt on anything.
The way i see it is that if he wants to split the family up then he can leave why should i give up everything i have here
Can anyone please help :-\
Re: Feeling really down getting_rough: I am not good with all the legal stuff so I can not offer you any advice. But I do want to say I feel for you. I hope someone else in here can offer you advice. Good luck.
Re: Feeling really down AfterMath: Consult an attorney as soon as possible cherry.
Re: Feeling really down cherryice: Thanks both of you.
I just need to be able to vent at the min as im so anrgy and upset and heartbroken.
I have decided to find somewere else to live.
Last night I asked him if he was interested in another woman at work he started laughing and said oh she will find this funny.
He cant understand he is slowey killing me.
All i do all day is cry and to tell you the truth i dont want to carry on
Re: Feeling really down HopelessGeek: OK well no matter what happens you should get something. The current UK laws are odd but it depends on what the courts deem necessary should it come to that.
The problem you have is that everything is in his name. Bills are fairly irrelevant but they do take into account how long the relationship has been if you need them too. Granted this is in the case of a divorce. But I am not sure what they do with a seperation. I would suggest you find a solicitor and speak to them about it.
I am going through the other side of this argument at the moment. My stbxw didn't really pay anything or bring anything to the marriage but debts. Yet I am trying to be reasonable.
Does he want you to leave and to leave the boys?
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