Re: Feeling really down cherryice: He wants me to leave with the boys
I had a three bedroom house in leicester that i had nice with furniture and he asked me to move to Wales with him,
We jointly picked this house and we couldnt fit all my furniture in it so I left a lot of it.
Now im expected to pick up and start again.
Re: Feeling really down HopelessGeek: I am sorry to hear that, but given the circumstances the only thing you can do is speak to a solicitor. You really need to know where you stand legally. Having checked your other posts and that you paid money to the house even though it was not in your name. Seeing as you entered into this as a joint venture but everything is in his name you really need the advice of someone professional. It will be at least something
I am not sure what else to suggest, except that he has a responsibility to the children and he needs to realise the consequences of his actions. I think irrespective of what happens it is going to result in a split of assets at least.
If you are looking for somewhere else then the sooner you can the better for you I think.
Re: Feeling really down whatnext: MAJOR CAVEAT: NOT FAMILIAR WITH UK LAWS.
Lawyer. Today. Repeat: today.
If you don't have to go: don't. Make him weaken his legal position.
Talk to a lawyer today, and make it your first priority. DO NOT DO ANYTHING until you have done this.
Re: Feeling really down cherryice: Ok
After accepting we are fininished on Friday we have a really nice weekend as a family.
On Friday night he went and stayed at his dads.
When the boys woke up in the morning,Owain who is nearly 2 cried for half an hour for daddy as it is dad that normaly gets him up while i see to our nearly 1 yr old.
So I started thinking I cant raise this family up without dad it will break owains heart he is such a daddys boy and he will only see him on school hols as we will be moving 250 miles away.
then on sat with the kids in the garden we had a bbq and a water fight.
When the kids were in bed we played on the xbox together we like playing role play games such as dungens and dragon and boulders gate.
Im thinking of saying i will put up with anything he wants as long as we can bring up our family together.
Im prepard to be used as a door mat for the sake of the kids and im hoping that he wants his family enough to agree.
Re: Feeling really down riversandlakes:
it is sad it has to come to this. cherryice, if he had thought of the kids he wouldn't have destroyed the family as such...
though let me drink (figuratively, this time) to your hopes and sacrifices. i too pray that he sees the wrong of his ways - soon...
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