Closing, closure, case closed. barelybreathing: We close on the house today.
It is closure in this painful mess.
The last albatross around our necks.
Case closed.
:'(:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
I am so down.
BB
Re:Closing, closure, case closed. JDorn: Don't worry you'll be ok. Just remember this piece of advice: Items and possesions are replaceable in your life, your happiness isn't, don't let yourself get down about a house or any other possession, its just not worth it.
My wife and I have been talking about splitting up for a while now (i'm the one with doubts/problems) and she keeps going on an on about how much it would hurt to lose the house and to have to live somewhere else, and how hard it would be to split up our posessions. I come from the point of view that I can replace those things, where as love is something I can't replace.
Good luck with moving on, deep down you know its for the best.
Re:Closing, closure, case closed. Buggs: Ever hear the song "Stuck in a moment" by U2? Listen to it. That's where you are. I'm not saying it's not a significant moment, but what I'm trying to say is that as tomorrow will come, and the day after time will help you move on past this moment and towards your quest for happiness.
"..And if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if your way should falter
Along the stoney pass
It's just a moment
This time will pass"
Take care
Buggs
Re:Closing, closure, case closed. justmenow: Another obstacle to clear - it's just another thing to do. Go through it with your head up and your dignity intact. Treat it as a business meeting, nothing more. Don't think back - only think ahead. It will get you through. You are a strong woman, BB, and someday you will look back on this as an accomplishment rather than a trial. You can do it...and I completely understand what you're going through because I felt that sadness you are feeling about a month ago when I closed on my house.
Hang tight.
Re:Closing, closure, case closed. JimB: "Closing time, every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end...." (Who uses that in their sig?)
Even after all this time, you still are clinging to the things that tie you to this flawed man. You are forever tied through your daughter - isn't that enough? Let go, and fly free. Live the life you were always meant to live - yours.
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