Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? ConfusedOOC: .
Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? Lome: hey
Well, June 1 I took my husband back and we are doing well. If you want all of the details, just pm me and I will fill you in.
I would check with your lawyer before going further. In ga, we do not have legal seperation. I was going to counter file under adultery....but, it does not matter in terms of money or the like....but, I am told it does in terms of children issues.
I will fight to keep my marriage whole. if you still think that there is a chance, then go for it....
Good luck
Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? Ilosther: I wouldn't count on the adultery case to work for you to get full custody. I'm not a lawyer but from what I read online, that doesnt weigh as much as the other stuff, like money, jobs, and stuff.
As far as being happy, if its in your heart to take her back and be a happy family again, do it. But definitely lay the rules down first. Of course you still love her, dont be ashamed of that.
I can't say more since my wife has hopefully not gone that route yet, but I can't see how I can stop loving my wife, we also have a 2 yr old.
good luck
Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? 4sarah: Every situation is different my X cheated on my and wanted to stay for our 2 childrenand the he cheated and left me for the other person later on. my friend's x cheated on her only 1 that she knew of and he begged her to stay and work things out so she did and 8 months later he was caught cheating on her again. Not the best news but I think cheating is a hard thing to fix not just for her to quit but also for you to forgive and trust her again. I however do think it is possible I know for me if my X hadn't left me later on I would have been able to forgive him for the whole thing and I think it would have been fine. The other woman kept bugging him every day and he couldn't say no.
Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? Samarra: So much depends on you...believe it or not...the irony...her mistake...yet the brunt of this weight will be on your shoulders. Life sucks.
It depends on your willingness to forgive....and by forgive I mean being able to move forward without constantly bringing up the infidelity and holding it over her head whenever an arguement ensues and it seems oh so tempting.
5 years down the road...an incident may spark a memory...can you keep the feelings inside?
Getting over an affair is the hardest thing to do in a marriage....but it can be done...providing you can put your trust in her.
Try counseling for the both of you...or you alone....you'll need help in dealing with the conflicting emotions and anger you're bound to feel. Good luck.
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