Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? 4sarah: Every situation is different my X cheated on my and wanted to stay for our 2 childrenand the he cheated and left me for the other person later on. my friend's x cheated on her only 1 that she knew of and he begged her to stay and work things out so she did and 8 months later he was caught cheating on her again. Not the best news but I think cheating is a hard thing to fix not just for her to quit but also for you to forgive and trust her again. I however do think it is possible I know for me if my X hadn't left me later on I would have been able to forgive him for the whole thing and I think it would have been fine. The other woman kept bugging him every day and he couldn't say no.
Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? Ilosther: I wouldn't count on the adultery case to work for you to get full custody. I'm not a lawyer but from what I read online, that doesnt weigh as much as the other stuff, like money, jobs, and stuff.
As far as being happy, if its in your heart to take her back and be a happy family again, do it. But definitely lay the rules down first. Of course you still love her, dont be ashamed of that.
I can't say more since my wife has hopefully not gone that route yet, but I can't see how I can stop loving my wife, we also have a 2 yr old.
good luck
Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? Lome: hey
Well, June 1 I took my husband back and we are doing well. If you want all of the details, just pm me and I will fill you in.
I would check with your lawyer before going further. In ga, we do not have legal seperation. I was going to counter file under adultery....but, it does not matter in terms of money or the like....but, I am told it does in terms of children issues.
I will fight to keep my marriage whole. if you still think that there is a chance, then go for it....
Good luck
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Re: Happy Marriage after Affair??? Possible? ajw: Adultery and who commited it will not be one of the major deciding factors in a custody battle.Your wife seems pretty commited to trying to make this work again and she seems to have done a lot to prove this man is out of her life.What you need to decide is can you forgive and can you trust her again.I personally think you should try,because you still love her and for your kids sake too.She made a mistake and it was a whopper,but she acknowledges it was a mistake and she is making every effort to correct it.I think maybe with the help of a counsellor you 2 can make this work.
Good Luck
Andy
