help qualt: please i need someone to tell me someting anything i dont want to get putt on medication but i feel like i am running out of the will to resist them. but do they really help do they really suppress this anxiety. oh God why is this happening we were such a good couple i never saw this coming we didnt fight alot or anything and we had fun together what is going on at least if we always fought that would be a reason but no reason at all is driving me mad. I cannot deal with this. I want to die please someone help me
Re: help gulfcoast: qualt
man you need to not be alone right now...
do you have someone you can go and talk to?
a friend, mother, aunt, uncle cousin anyone?
you need somebody to be around right now..............
Re: help timetobefree: qualt,
I am sorry you are feeling so down. This stupid thing called heartbreak really sucks. It really really does.
Why are you resisting the medication? It is nothing to be embarrassed about. Lots and lots of people use meds to get them through rough times. There is no shame in that. Divorce is one of the worst things a person can go through.
There is no magic answer. Time will help. Contacting friends and family will help. Hanging out on ojar will help.
If you are really feeling suicidal, please reach out to a suicide hotline or a friend. Your life is worth more than that. I know it is hard to believe right now, but it will get better. Hang in there, OK????
Take care,
Amy
Re: help qualt: NO, i have no one i used to live in florida until i moved oput here to California in May to be with my wife (she joined the Airforce) and i left all my friends and family in Florida (she begged me to come here, said she couldnt live without me) to be with her. WTF only for her to leave me 2 months later this F*&$ING b*%!CH i cant call anyone the phone just doesnt do it for me i am going crazy and i want to just die im ready to stop living my life has always been one f uc up after another my mother is a B*&tch and i thought i married a sweet girl she was a sweet girl up until last month WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Re: help startingover: Is there anyone you could call to come over to be with you tonight? Being alone is probably not a good idea right now. Meds aren't always a bad thing. Everyone is different. Some need them, some don't. I did for about 2 months after the breakup to get me through the rough patch. Hang in there.
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