Re: help justmenow: Qualt, I know what you are feeling. I went through the depression you described. I was cheated on too. Let me tell you this - do NOT hurt yourself because it isn't going to accomplish anything. I know the reason you want to die is to get the pain to stop because I wanted to die too. I almost tried it too, but by the grace of God I am still alive and instead drove straight to the doctor's office. He prescribed Paxil and I took it for two months during my divorce. Meds, counseling, exercise, friends, family, my church, all of those got me through and I'm glad I didn't listen to the depression and kill myself. It isn't worth it. The pain DOES stop eventually and you'll find that you have so much to live for. You are still young and there is a whole lifetime of happiness ahead of you. Take the meds, at least for now until you can cope. Find a counselor and go through the grieving process, but do it alive, okay? What you are going through is not abnormal and it IS survivable. You are not alone. Please make it through this, okay? I will pray for you.
