Re: "i want to move out" ashamaliedarn: R...(stepdad) offered me some of mom's Valium and some other stuffies...can i do that?! ;D
Re: "i want to move out" amola: NO!! NO!! NO!! NO!! NO!!
don't you dare...... i know it's tempting, but you can't be doing that crap, and don't even joke about it. i don't trust b (or his mother) and at this point you have to make sure that he has absolutely nothing that he can use against you! got it? not to mention that you have to take care of baby....
<end of that particular lecture>
seriously.....what do you want to do? it sounds to me like he's already made his decision. you can't afford to stay there by yourself, especially considering that d & e don't do sh!t to help out.
you already know what i think you should do.
what do YOU want to do?
Re: "i want to move out" ashamaliedarn: I wanna prove to EVERYONE that I CAN do this...and i can..[sub"> can't i?[/sub"> I can't just take Courtleigh out of her home....she goes nuts..she loves it here. I love it here. But GDMFSOB......My head hurts...I've cried too much...EVERYONE'S pulling me in different directions..."come to ohio" "come to coffeyville" come to our house (mom and R) and I'm just....*bawls* i just don't know!
Re: "i want to move out" in_search_of: Ok, ISO joins the conversation! lol....
Ash,
it sounds like this punk as chosen his path, and as much as you want to make it work, and prove to everyone that you made a good choice and you can do this, sometimes you have to prove to them that you can learn from your mistakes and become a better person.
If he don't love you honey, well, that is a pretty good indicator that it is over. I always advocate fighting and fighting and fighting until you can just tell that its over, until that ton of bricks falls on your head, and you suddenly realize that this is or is not going to work.
From what it sounds like he has a lot of growing up to day, and unfortunately for some of us who married young, and then were trying to grow up together, that does not always work. My ex has done so much growing since we split up that it is amazing, if he were then who he is now, perhaps we would have had a chance, a fighting chance anyway, but he was not.
I know that you are worried and thinking about your baby, but the best thing that you can do for her is take care of yourself, you can't properly take care of her unless you are in a good place yourself, and this does not sound like a good place.
You have family and friends that are close and can and will help you, you have therefore, everything in the world that you need, and you have your baby who loves and needs you.
Here is my question for you, what are you trying to prove?
and what is better for your daughter in the long run, to see mom healthy and happy and alone (thereby realizing that in the end she does not need someone to make her happy) OR is it better to stick out the relationship which is obviously not working, and end up showing her that marriage and relationship should cause pain and sorrow and heart ache!
Re: "i want to move out" ashamaliedarn: i know our relationship is basically dead now....that's not what i'm trying to prove anymore....
i guess what i meant is that...with or without B I am 20 years old.. Had he left when I was pregnant I would have been raising Courtleigh alone....therefore. when he leaves...i want to prove to everyone who thinks i can't make it without him...that i can.
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