Re: my wife says she is not sure if she ever turly had a "spark" for me. joe95: I told her I respect her honesty for discussing this with me and I am a better person for having known her. I also said that I would not give up this marriage without knowing it is the best decision for both of us. I truly believe that we are different, but that is why we have done so well in the past. She has many qualities that I am lacking and I do the same for her. I guess I just want to make sure that we have thought about everything before a divorce is ever even considered.
Re: my wife says she is not sure if she ever turly had a "spark" for me. hudson: two things real quick joe. first, yes, that's the whole key to marriage, you get through these tough times and then reap the benefits of doing so. A closer, stronger, more loving marriage....that's better than all the gold in the world buddy.
second, don't push her. If her decision, her choice isn't involved in this, it won't work. She has to want it too, and it may take more time for her to realize this than you'd like. So be patient. She's going to have to realize a few things on her own.
Re: my wife says she is not sure if she ever turly had a "spark" for me. faith: I don't think you should rush, but I don't think you can work on a marriage over weekends. I think you need to be together and functioning as a traditionally married couple.
I don't think you can force her to move home (nor should you). I also don't think you moving your home to be where she is , is a great idea either.
I'm not much help am I? :-\
Hang in there, and visit OJAR ... there's a lot of good help here!
Re: my wife says she is not sure if she ever turly had a "spark" for me. joe95: I am trying not to push her, but I will admit that is difficult. I guess I should not worry so much about the time, because we have already been in this for almost ten years. What is a little time if you have so much history and good times.
Re: my wife says she is not sure if she ever turly had a "spark" for me. joe95: What is OJAR?
Does anyone think that I should give her more time to think before we start counseling?
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