Re: Lonely in Seattle wstcstmama: kermie please msg me again I accidently hit the snooze button on my keyboard!!
Re: Lonely in Seattle Konan: Sorry to hear about these troubles. It's in times like these that pretend friends are exposed, no doubt.
When did you move to Seattle? I know it's very nice now, but have you been there in the Fall-Winter-Spring?
Re: Lonely in Seattle fcard05: [quote"> I guess everyone got tired of my whining which is understandable.[/quote">
i understand your loneliness completely. i'm a stay at home dad, my wife left me two weeks ago about a week after she told me we were done. anyway, i don't have many friends or much family around, and all of my friends are married and living generally happy lives. two days ago i called my best friend (we've been friends since our sophomore yr of high school in 1984) because the sadness/sorrows had returned in a big way. he listened politely for about a minute then told me he had to go and would call me the next day... haven't heard from him since. i don't hold it against him because he really just doesn't understand the pain of having everything you've lived and worked for, all of your life's dreams explode.
it wasn't until i found ojar that i noticed my mood starting to change for the better. this is the best place i've found, by far, for people going through the gut wrenching turmoil of separation and divorce. hang in there mama and lean on us, that's what i believe everyone is here for, to help and be helped.
take care and best wishes.
Re: Lonely in Seattle starzluv: i know how you feel about family wanting you to move back and thinking you are only staying because of him. i moved to Pa. a year and a half ago with my husband and now that we are separated i am being told i should just move back to Az. not by my dad or sister, but by a couple of friends down there. they think i am only staying in Pa because of him, but i like it here. i like having 4 seasons and i like the small town we live in. yes i hope i can work things out with my husband, but even if we can't, i am staying here. all the people on this site have help me through this time. it is soo good to get advice and support from people who have gone through, or are going through what i am, and to know that i am not the only one going through it.
