Re: no friends riversandlakes: eh? that is so NOT true! :D though i'm not msn now. lousy proxy server in the office...
Re: no friends wowee: also, check out the local Ojar section, see if anyone is near where you live & would be willing to go out for a drink / coffee / whatever.
In the meantime, as the others have said... we are all still here for you & thanks to either location ( all around the word ) or insomnia, there is usually someone here for you 24/7!!
Re: no friends fcard05: abc123,
Hang in there, I know a little of where you're coming from. I have a very limited base of friends and family and I am cautious not too make my problems take over there lives. Like it was said in another post, there is only so much that friends want to hear. They can help a little but they have lives as well. That leaves people in our position with so much time to be alone with our thoughts, which is so hard when all you want to do is talk and try to make sense of it all. Please feel free to contact me, I know I could use someone to talk with as well.
Take care.
Re: no friends insomnia: Dont feel alone- we are here. i have family and friends here but to tell you the truth when i am with them i feel more alone than ever because it reminds me of how lonely my life is when i see them all together with their family...
Re: no friends kizzmekate72: Ugh - I feel you on the no friends thing. All of our friends have sided with my stbxh on this. Funny thing is they were all originally my friends and they could not stand him. I kinda pushed them all away though when I had my mental breakdown when he first started asking me for separation. I did not want to trouble them with my crap and isolated myself for weeks. They now are helping him out and he stays at their houses on a rotating basis while he looks for a place to live.
My family has been split between us as well. My brother and sister-n-law have been the go between because we have a no contact thing going on, but we still talk to each other. Shh don't tell the judge :) My parents are totally behind me though.
Now I am alone in a city with only a few new friends that I have made when I was finally able to pull myself out of bed and get out for the first time in years.
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