Re:Can I join? EZ: hi Shan welcome and my prayers and thoughts are with you. i havent been here long either but the support is incredible. i have found that all of us here have or pains and our stories you have come to the right place for there are alot of people here that will help you through this and offer a shoulder to lean on
peace and love
Re:Can I join? shannon: Thank you all. This is a very bad place to be in right now, and it's made worse by my STBX being so rotten to our son. It's so hard to explain. He is totally uninvolved, yet gets violent when he's 'not included'. I offer, beg and plead for him to spend time with our son and it's just always a bad time.
It hurts to realize that I am alone and that I'll have a hard time trusting again.
What are your stories?
Shan
Re:Can I join? PiscesGoddess: Honey Im so sorry.. I was just posting about this on another thread because my first ex has nothing to do with my kids either.. and as I said in that one.. just like you cant make someone be a spouse..unfortunately you cant make them be a parent either.. and I know its like a knife in the heart.. I know I know I know.. but they are the ones missing out.. All the begging pleading in the world..just isnt gonna do it. Make sure YOU are there for your son.. and smother him with love.. cause it looks like you have to be both dad and mom.. and alot of us on this board have been there.
HUGS and Peace to you tonight,
Pisces
Re:Can I join? Safetykc: Hugs and Peace indeed Shannon....
Our stories are all posted on the Your Breakup Story board...also you can click on our individual names and read all posts to catch the old ones...Some of us have been around so long I am not sure if our stories are still up there....but they all are sad in different ways... :'(
Hang in there kiddo...
Its a rough ride, but we are all on that rollercoaster with ya....
Safety
Re:Can I join? EZ: hey Shan
i wished i could help about your son i dont have that problem at least not yet. my stbx wife and i are on the same page and she is a good mother so i dont have that issue to deal with. but the feeling alone and not knowing if i can ever trust someone as much as i did, well im just starting to address both of those, im not even sure anymore if i should ever have trusrted another person that much
peace and love
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