New here though it has always been inevitable JillR: So here it is - my story in a nutshell. Married my husband 7 yrs ago - knew walking down the aisle it would not work.
We had a child a year & a half later, then another 2 yrs later. All through this we knew we didn't want to be together but stayed for the kids.
He has mentally destroyed me - I feel like I have NO self-esteem anymore - and I was a very strong person before.
It KILLS me to do this to my children but it is for the best.
I am just in the beginning of this process and I hope for support during it all.
I am very happy I found this site - it's nice to know I am not alone.
Jill
Re: New here though it has always been inevitable lookin4alite: Jill,
I am sorry to hear about your situation. You have come to the right place. OJAR has help many, many people. It will help you too. Please continue to come here and share your needs with us. We are here to help you.
Take Care
lite
Re: New here though it has always been inevitable microtech1: Hi Jill sorry to hear about your troubles. I guess I would like to know why you knew walking down the aisle it would never work? That seems like a very strange thing to be thinking ??? I am just wondering how was it going to work if that is the attitude that you all entered into a marriage with?
I'm glad you found this site and I hope I can offer support to you. Take care.
micro
Re: New here though it has always been inevitable Blueyes424: Jill~
Welcome to Ojar, even though the circumstances that brought you here suck.
You have found a wonderful place of support, and whenever you need one of us, we will be here for you!!!!!!!!
Hugs~
~Blue
