Re: When to start dating? gulfcoast: I would say to take some time....
get you happy with you again.....
then you can introduce someone else into your world.....
if you have gone through a split....
you need time....
a week or month or two...is no time at all...............
atleast 6 months......
no one gets over something like that over night........
it will just lead you to another split with someone else....
Re: When to start dating? qualt: yeah i agree with gulf, although i must say that i have only been seperated for 2 weeks and i would like a female to talk to and hold and maybe even sleep with (i mean actually sleeping not sex) but obviously a realtionship would not be fair to someone. Maybe if you found someone willing to be a cuddle friend and you didnt take it to far but thats probably not good either, it would feel good though to have someone to be there for you like that while you try to cope with things.
by the way freovir i like the refrence to canada being a third world country. mad props
Re: When to start dating? Bubba: Jill this question has been asked in the past many times. The answer is it differs for everyone. You are the only one who knows when you are ready.
freovir:
[quote"> selling them into slavery in some third world country like Canada when the relationship gets serious.
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Hmmm Interesting. Have you seen the 2004 United Nation List for the places with the highest standard of living? Here it is:
Top Ten Ranking Countries:
1. Norway
2. Sweden
3. Australia
4. Canada
5. The Netherlands
6. Belgium
7. Iceland
8. United States
9. Japan
10. Ireland
Canada is 4th. In fact from the years 1992 to 2001, Canada held the #1 slot. If Canada is a 3rd world country, how would this be possible? Actually, if Canada was a 3rd world country and ranks ahead of the US, what does that signify? Also, if you want to talk about slavery, back in history, the black slaves in the US fled to Canada via the underground railroad so the could be free. Your remark is offensive to an entire nation which it appears you know nothing about. Considering you are a teacher I would have thought you would be above such a thing.
Bubba
Re: When to start dating? Ilosther: I have the same questions. I dont want to just find someone just to fill the void. I do also have that sleeping next to someone vent. I wish I could just have that at least. My wife says I will find someone, but I said I dont want to, I found someone already in her.
I think only time will tell, not very helpful, I know. As far as having kids and meeting someone, the right man will come along that will love your kids the way he will love you. I just hope my wife doesnt find that someone because it would kill me to see some other man being in my son's life. I know that man will never replace his real father, but still, I can't imagine that.
I dont even know where to begin on the dating front.
Re: When to start dating? inthemiddle: Bubba, I couldn't agree more (on both points).
Jill, only you will know...just try to keep your head on level and not rush blindly into anything.
Freovir, Canada's a great place to live and far from 3rd world. This comment was totally uncalled for.
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