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Re: Totally Lost brokenhearted: Thank-you all for the posts, talking about it definatly helps. I guess time heals all wounds but these ones run deep.  My ultimate goal is to get back together, thats what I want but I don't know, nor do I think she knows, what she wants but I will keep on fighting
Re: Totally Lost fcard05: best of luck to you brokenhearted. i hope things can work out for you the way you want them to. if they don't i hope you, and all of us who feel such pain, can find a way to move on and enjoy our lives again.

take care.


Re: Totally Lost microtech1: Hi BH yes time does heal all wounds but this one is still fresh. I really hope that things work out for you in the end like you want them to. My suggestion would be to give her some space and wait to see what she has to say in a little while. Keep posting here because talking about things really helps alot and there is always someone to listen. Take care.

micro
Re: Totally Lost judy: I agree, give her the space.  If things don't change in a couple of weeks (or whatever timeframe you put on them) start preparing yourself.  Just remember that you need to take care of yourself -- keep busy with your children and start to focus on you
J
Re: Totally Lost brokenhearted: Thanx again for the posts, I swallowed  some pride and me and the other half went out for coffee and needless to say what I found out just confused me even more.  She wants to work things out and she still loves me but for the past 3 or 4 years the mere thought of me touching her, whether it was hugging, holding hands or sex, made her sick. I even asked her if this was true for all guys or me and unfortunatly she said it was only me.  So I am now completely confused and wonder if this marriage is even worth saving.

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