Re: met a player freovir: [quote"> The best dating advice I ever got from someone was People tell you who they are and what problems you will have with them in the first three dates. Listen.[/quote">
I already had this cut before i saw the others. THIS IS GREAT ADVICE.
--freovir
Re: met a player hudson: Cool A25,
I'm glad you're getting out there and enjoying it. And yes, this potential player could turn out to be a good friend, so do spend time with him. He may turn out to be a swell guy who's just a little leery of clingy women(given his last encounter with a woman). Clinginess is a turn off, it's as simple as that. So be confindent with him, show him who you really are and hey, there's a good chance that he could fall into your web. My new philosophy with relationships is go slow...that way, mistakes are less likely to happen.
Oh, quick question: you said this guy hooked up with this other girl a few times. Did you mean sex. Cause if this vato is sleeping around, walk away. He won't respect you and doesn't respect women.
Have fun, and do keep us posted.
peace yo
Re: met a player A25: haha...
ok so i hung out with this guy again and it went so well! we had a little heart to heart chat about things...and he truly is just not looking for anything serious over the summer. we had a good time together and i definitely enjoyed it for what it was worth. my crush on him has actually faded, b/c I know in my heart that we aren't anything more than meets the eye, and I'm fine with that. I actually haven't seen him in a few weeks. However, to make the story more interesting...in the past few weeks I've been hanging out with his friend, getting to know him better, t& urns out we have a lot in common...he is soo nice, cute, totally different with girls than his friend....and so yeah I have a crush on this guy now. haha...but I can't figure him out, whenever we are together he is very flirty and I feel like there is something there that is more than platonic...but I really don't know for sure. are there any subtle ways to find out? I'm afraid to make any bold moves but if i never take the risk I might never know what could have been...but i don't want to lose him as a friend in doing so. hmmm.
Re: met a player Beren: Hmmmmm. You just met this new guy, right? So, (1) how good of a friend can he be that you're afraid of losing his friendship if you try to take it to the next level? (2) I don't think I know very many guys who would say something like, "What? You're romantically interested in me? I'm so insulted! I don't want to be your friend any more." So, yeah, I don't think you're risking a whole lot by going after him. I don't think I've ever dismissed a female friend just because I found out she had romantic inclinations towards me. What's destroyed those friendships is when they get increasingly petulant and whiny about me not reciprocating the way they want me to, until I finally get pushed too far. The last two friends I've lost that way are still fresh in my memory because it really hurt to lose them. I've always liked having women for friends, but I'm starting to wonder if maybe it's not such a great idea.
It's weird, too, because I'm not all that good looking, I'm unattractively overweight, and I'm rather ill-tempered, so why would these women want me so bad anyway?
Beren
Re: met a player Lumpy: [quote author=Beren link=topic=15598.msg161437#msg161437 date=1125706086">
It's weird, too, because I'm not all that good looking, I'm unattractively overweight, and I'm rather ill-tempered, so why would these women want me so bad anyway?
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It's gotta be the Hasselhoff underwear.
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