Inlaws Outlaws Whatevah!! wstcstmama: My X is 29 yrs old for peets sake. Whats sad is his mother and I became really close after he left but FIL put a stop to that...his brother and his wife even separated a month later. I swear they just want their little boys to move home and live there forever. Toxic A** people get a life. She sends him daily divorce rates she sees and offered to pay for it. Well since she did that i have decided I WILL drag this out for so long they will be POOR by the time I am done with them.
Re: Inlaws Outlaws Whatevah!! gulfcoast: do you think that dragging somethin out is the answer?
it's revenge...
which would mean you are letting them own a piece of you...
Re: Inlaws Outlaws Whatevah!! wstcstmama: well..they are the ones pushing this. X has said more than once that isnt what he wants. Even BIL now confesses they pushed him into it. They are all about getting rid of the problem when in fact their sons are the issue! My husband was an abusive drug addict but they are ALL about hurting me. Its hard to explain without knowing them. They never wanted him to marry me anyway so they are all about ending it. So if it hurts their pocketbooks,sorry I will! These people have hurt me for almost 9 yrs and I let them, I wont be nice anymore.
Re: Inlaws Outlaws Whatevah!! gulfcoast: Hey,
you gotta do what you gotta do....
Re: Inlaws Outlaws Whatevah!! wstcstmama: I knew when they forced BIL to file for separation afer being married only 6months they were nuts. Their reason, the wife had a mental breakdown. Divorce her. Is that not when you need to be there for your spouse and DIL? Nope not to them. It was unfixable so therefore they wanted no part.
