Amicable is only amicable if she stops yelling My_farm: Vent;
We have/had an amicable divorce. She wants to be immediate friends(she
obviously got over me long before she divorced me). I have told her many
times I want no contact for quite a while to get over her.
She knows that I have not slept past 2:00 am in three months.
I have been trying to make her get the 'quit claim deed' from her lawyer
since the day of the divorce,almost 2 months. I think that she was holding it hostage for future leverage. We had discussed 'quit claim deeds' many times in the past,Not for us or divorce purposes,but in general. She knew that it does not take you off the mortgage only gives up your right to the property.
Our decree states that she owes me a 'quit claim deed' and I have no
responsibility to refinance to remove her from the mortgage.
I feel that I am a 'good guy' and I am going to refinance to get her name off the mortgage any way(I would want her to do it for me). I have e-mailed her for the papers often.
It is her lawyer and her responsibility to get it to me.
It must have sudden dawned on her that she wants her name off the mortgage because at my bedtime last night she calls screaming at me to get the house refinanced to get her name off the mortgage. I told her that is why I have been trying to get the 'quit claim deed' from her while the interest rates are low. She knows I have not gotten any sleep and calls
5 minutes after my bedtime(very rude to make me think about this while trying to fall asleep).
She took the 401k,all of the savings and checking accounts and thinks
that it should be easy for me to waltz in and get a new mortgage.
End of vent.
Mike
