Re: bad start to weekend... microtech1: Hey sooverhim it sounds like you are working things out and are on the path to peace and tranquility. I just wanted to say that I agree you shouldn't read to much into his defensiveness. I mean you have already admitted that he had at least some reason to get upset. He was probably so defensive because it was an unexpected attack. I use attack loosely because I wasn't there to hear your tone or see your body language. Think about those things and see if you might not have been defensive in his position. He probably was completley caught off guard and felt like he had to defend himself because you were already upset.
Just my outlook like I said I wasn't there but just playing devils advocate here to help you replay the conforontation and see if you can see anyhting that will help.
Take care.
Re: bad start to weekend... sooverhim: thanks microtech...you are right...actually i think he had just woke up from a nap and acted like he was watching tv when i approached him and i just poppedi n the room and asked and that was it...i still in the back of my mind question this girl but nothing can change that! i do trust him though-not her. he can be grumpy too when (if) he is sleeping so that didn't help matters if he really was sleeping...
