Re:I am really mad.... PiscesGoddess: Gosh BB.. so sorry .. Is this idiot ever going to stop messing with you? ugg.. :'(
Just my 2 cents here? but if you guys dont have visitation set up..I say dont let him take your daughter..he just wants to come along and play disneyland dad for a day..and then who is left to pick up the pieces when he takes off again for his so called greener pastures? YOU! Your baby doesnt know him now.. and I dont think HE deserves to see her at all.. Where in the heck has he been for the past few months of her life? So what if you get backlash? Those people dont have to live your life everyday.. As for him calling you psycho? This idiot seriously needs to take a loong look in the mirror..What he has done to you and your sweet baby is unforgiveable, inconceivable. I know you have to do what you feel is right.. but you have made tremendous strides since that fateful day he left you at the airport.. He doesnt get to do this to you anymore. Im pullin for you BB...
Hugs...
Pisces
Re:I am really mad.... Safetykc: Oh BB... :'( :'( :'(
Hang in there....No offense, but he is full of sh@t and you know that deep down...you are not a misreable person who crys all the time...you haven't cried once when I have talked to you and boy I tried with the chitty chitty bang bang trivia...
You have to do whats best for you and your little girl....but I know it sucks he is trying to have his cake and eat it too....Totally be out of the picture and swoop in and make demands...as pisces said...if you don't have a visitation agreement set up...you might want to think about it....then if he tried to pull this crap you could simply refer to that and hang up on his sleestak ass...
Sorry, hearing about him being verbally abusive to you makes me >:(.
You are one of the sweetest kindest people on this board and always are so empathetic and responsive to others....Just don't listen to that shmuck on that stuff and as for seeing your daughter....that is your decision but we are all here to support you honey....
Take care and HUGE PW Herman HUGGGGGSSSS!!!!!
Safety
Re:I am really mad.... DaisyGarden: IMO, calling you up and saying those things, when things don't go his way, seem a little abusive. >:(
But, what you're describing is why I'm dreading Christmas! My s2bx will show up (convenient to his schedule of course), and take daughter after not having contact in quite a while. He will NOT! get our divorce moving (which has visitation set up!), but drifts in and out of her life when he feels like it.
I would love to withhold visitation until he gets his divorce paperwork in order, but I'm not sure how fair that is, or or if it's even allowed! ::)
Re:I am really mad.... barelybreathing: Thanks ojar gang....
I prayed all night for strength, clarity and focus. Woke up feeling very much in control.
He is just rotten now. I love the person he was. He picks unnecessary fights. He says cruel things for no reason. He lashes out.
He is a disneyland dad pisces. How ironic too, his mistress' name was Mickey, you know the mouse.
I do cry alot when "he" is around because he has usurped incredible sadness and unnecessary destruction in so many people's lives. But I am by know means one who loves misery and likes all this drama.
He is a lamoid. His actions are a result of his shortcomings not mine. He lashes out because he has nothing. He has destroyed all his credibility.
I am in control. I am good. I am decent. I am honorable. He will not bring me down. He will not make me feel bad. He will not.
I have and am raising this incredible child completely by myself! I have and am rebuilding my entire life all over again, against such stebacks. I have God in my life. I have an incredible family.
I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR!
I ROCK. You will never make me doubt myself again...EVER.
BB
Re:I am really mad.... Safetykc: I agree...You do Rock BB...That's the positive attitude I know you have.
Keep that ROARING going.
Big Hugs.
Safety
