Re:completely blindsided and devastated avecito: Dear everyone who read my post and sent me your encouragement, thank you soooo much.... i could tell that this is a great community when i read other posts and i was right!
this is such a sudden and unexpected thing to try to deal with and just knowing that you are out there gives me comfort...especially those of you who went through similar situations.
the emotions come in waves and i am just trying to hang on and ride them out. THANKS!!!