Day one of no contact lonelywithouthim: Today is day ONE of no contact. He has called my cell about 6 times, and finally he called my Mom's house and she informed him that I was not here, and that I left our marriage liscense and me and my daughters social security cards (he needs them for the navy), and that he could pick them up. He did ask her if she knew where I was and she said no. Could that be a good thing? He needs to wonder where I am for a change... Anyway, he called about 3 times after that and finally left a voicemail asking if I knew where his social security card and high school diploma were. I didn't respond, in my opinion it's not my responsibility anymore. His Mom called a few minutes later asking if I still wanted her to go to my ultrasound appointment next wednesday. I called back and told her she was welcome to come, it was her decision. ( I left this in a voicemail) So now it's 2:15pm, and of course i'm left wondering if he is curious where me and his daughter are. This is my last resort. If he doesn't respond to the no contact, then I will cut my losses and move on. I pray that it hits him within the next couple of days, and that it hits him hard. He hasn't seen his daughter in 3 days. I need courage... I want to pick the phone up and call him so badly it hurts. :'(
Re: Day one of no contact tbird: dont' call. be strong.
do you really want his mother at the ultrasound? wouldnt you rather have your mom there instead?
Re: Day one of no contact lonelywithouthim: My Mom had major back surgery last month and is unable to walk around a hospital. I guess its better for his Mom to be there than no one. :(
Re: Day one of no contact starzluv: well you have tons of support here, be strong hopefully he will soon see what he is missing and you won't have to do the no contact for long.
i know what you mean about having someone with you for the ultasound. when i went for mine with my youngest, i went alone. my husband was in another state getting things set up for me and the kids to join him after the baby was born. it sucked being alone.
Re: Day one of no contact hardened_heart1970: hi, just to let you know, the no contact thing will get way way better. im near almost 8 months, and we have kids.....(long story) it will get easier. hang in there..........
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