Re: Where the f*ck is her head? rhondam71: Slash:
I was curious about the partying your wife has been doing...you have a 2 and a 5 year old, as a mother of a toddler, I certainly know that my "partying" days are and SHOULD be over. If she is truly partying, cheating, and spending less time with the kids then not only is she a bad wife...but also a horrible mother. Kids are not toys to play with when you want then put them away, and neither are spouses. The fact that you are even giving her more than a minute to think about her situation shows you have a big heart and/or are thinking of your kids. Kudos to you and I hope everything works out for you ahd your boys.
Rhonda
Re: Where the f*ck is her head? Slash: Thanks, Rhonda. I don't believe her behaviour or his are likely in the best interest of our kids. They both are partying, drinking and even driving. She's spending so much time between him and the partying that it's definitely taking time away from our kids. Even her friends are voicing their concerns over what is happenning and that she isn't doing right. I'm really struggling with getting a Private Investigator involved to document what's going on. The reason I'm struggling is that once I start something I finish it.
Re: Where the f*ck is her head? ajw: I'm sorry its been so rough Slash.Its important that you stick to your decision now,if she leaves once ,shes gone.No more "just give me one more chance",you have to look after yourself at this point,because she's sure not.Using an argument you had 2 years ago is bulls++t too,if she was mad at you about it,she would have cheated then,she's trying to come up with any crap excuse to make her feel less gulity.
keep strong
Andy
Re: Where the f*ck is her head? Kermie: I would def go for the PI. Get the proof now while you know she is doing it and not later after she moves out and you have no idea what she is doing. This way you know when she comes and goes and can get the PI to follow her during those times so it won't cost you a fortune getting them to follow her all day. Get her on the adultry now while you can. I know its hard as hell to even think about it. I was in for 14 years as well. Played the nice guy and got burned. I should have done alot of things alot sooner. The only good it does me now is to hopefully help others who are not sure if they should go after them or not. If she does decide to come back then you just store the info away for another time, and my guess is that it will happen again. Sorry to be so blunt, but I just hate seeing someone else in front of the train and not being able to pull them off the tracks in time.
Re: Where the f*ck is her head? Phyxius: Yep - sounds like a classic cranial-rectal inversion to me... [IMG"> http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a176/Hasatude5150/sadsigh.gif">
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