My baby is scarred! kellsbee: Well, we went to the orthopedic center today, all three of us. All went well again as far as the dr went. He has to wear a cast for a month. Not too bad. But on the way home sh!it hit the fan! My son said to me "mom, I have to tell you something but I dont want you to be mad, Im embarassed." So the conversation began...He started crying and tells me that last week he and his dad spent the night at candice's house. I said ok... and? Apparantly he woke up and caught his dad in the middle of a threesome. My seven year old is using words now like "sex and ohter kinds of love" he said that jade came over in the middle of the night and she was naked. DID YOU HEAR THAT????? My son saw a grown woman and my xhusb have a threesome with another girl. BOTH girls used to be my best friend. OH yeah, did I mention that last night candice spent the night with my x husb. and slept IN MY BED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I know its not my bed anymore but damnit thats the way that my son sees it.) I am soooo mad! I can hardly breathe. When I confonted the xbast.. on it he blamed it on ME~ said that I encouraged our son to say those things! I HATE HIM!!!!
Re: My baby is scarred! Smiley17: OMG!!! Sweetie! Take a deep breath, ok? Calm down.
A PM is on it's way.
Re: My baby is scarred! amola: omg kell..........
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i'm so sorry......this is horrible. i can't imagine what you and your son must be going through right now.
i don't even know what to tell you on this one.....my first thought is to be as honest with your son as you can, without details. answer his questions as best you can.
and keep him away from that moron as much as possible......
i'm so sorry.......
Re: My baby is scarred! dreamerpoet: Oh that is awful. Take your time, calm down and then ask your son if there is anything he wants to talk about/if he has any questions. Let him direct the discussion cuz you don't want to make him more uncomfortable or force something but I agree that it isn't something to sweep under the rug either. I can't even imagine!!!!!!
And your ex is just being defensive by saying it is your fault!!!! He is a big.....a big....well I can't think of anything properly derrogatory right this second.
((((((HUGS)))))))))
Re: My baby is scarred! AmyMarie1972: That is terrible. What a total jerk. If I were you I would not allow my child around there again.
Ignore the ex when he says that it is your fault he is just a waste of space. how anyone can do that when their child is in the house and could walk in I dont know.
Your son is embarrased by what he has seen. Tell him that you too would have been embarrased. That he was right to talk to you about what happened and that you will always be there for him if he needs or wants to talk about anything else.
Sending big HUGS to you and your son
Amy
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